Hating Sin

A Time to Love, A Time to Hate - True love has rules, confronts, is disciplined and sticks to principles.
http://www.justbetweenus.org/uploads/love-R.jpgBy Jill Briscoe

A time to love, And a time to hate. ~ Ecclesiastes 3:8

We know there is always a time to love, but is there ever a time to hate?  I believe there is a legitimate case for hating whatever it is that spoils love.

What wife-beater does not hate the temper that controls him?  What alcoholic wife does not despise the urge to reach for the bottle that is ruining her home and her relationships?  There is definitely a time to hate that which destroys love.  If we hate sin enough, we might be motivated to seek God’s help to turn from it and be different.

God hates sin.  He hates it because He knows sin is a spoiler.  Jesus showed us God’s heart when He turned on the Pharisees, hating their hypocrisy and pride.  “Pride…I hate” (Prov. 8:13), said the Lord.  God hated lying, divorce, and all sorts of abuses of human rights.  He hates cheating and sexual perversion.

Yes, there is a time to hate.  The problem comes when our love does not contain the element of hatred.  False love allows anyone to do anything to anybody regardless of the consequences and calls that love.  False love even loves what God hates!

“God had given me this wonderful love for this married man,” a woman told me.

“Nonsense,” I replied, “He wouldn’t.  God hates adultery.” 

True love hates the thing that spoils it.  True love has rules, and it confronts, disciplines, and shows itself strong in sticking to principles.  True love is honest and open, and is willing to sacrifice itself, being firstly and foremostly concerned with the loved one’s highest good.  There is a time to love.  It’s now!

  


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