Would this hard thing that you’re going through right now be any easier to deal with if you knew without a doubt that God sees it—He sees you—and He’s committed to seeing this thing through with you? Would the heavy load you’re carrying on behalf of your family or on behalf of your ministry, feel any lighter if you could be confident that the Lord Himself was carrying it for you?
Hagar was a mistreated slave living in a foreign land. Pregnant and rejected, she fled to the desert to escape her circumstances. With no prospects, no support system, and no visible hope for the future, Hagar surely felt the weight of wondering, “How can I go on one more day like this?”
Enter the angel of the Lord. He spoke to the outcast Hagar, instructing her to go back to her difficult situation and deal with it knowing that God Almighty, El-Shaddai, would be going back with her. Not only that, but He’d be keeping His eye on her and her baby through thick and thin.
Hagar’s response to this angelic encounter rings full of hope overflowing. “She gave this name to the LORD who spoke to her: ‘You are the God who sees me,’ for she said, ‘I have now seen the One who sees me’” (Gen. 16:13).
That is what made all the difference in Hagar’s life. Her circumstances didn’t miraculously change, but she had experienced the miracle of a changed perspective. Knowing that God was real, and He was really involved in her life story, gave Hagar a renewed vision for what otherwise looked like a desperate situation. That realization helped me in my time of desperation, too.
After learning through ultrasound that my third child was diagnosed with Down syndrome and a potentially fatal heart defect, after praying for the remaining five months of pregnancy that God would heal my unborn daughter’s heart and allow her to be born without a cognitive disability, and after giving birth to our sweet Sarah Hope only to realize that God chose not to answer either of those prayer requests according to my plan, I was desperate. Desperate for a do-over, desperate to escape my new reality, desperate to know I had not been rejected by the God I so loved.
God sees you. He sees you on your knees in prayer...He sees you facing one trial after another...and He wants you to remember He is with you through it all. He will remove some of the obstacles in your path, and He’ll ask you to walk through others, but through thick and thin, God is by your side.
Sarah was born on a beautiful summer day and quickly started dying. She went from the delivery room straight to the neonatal intensive care unit where we then played a waiting game like nothing I had ever known before. How many days could Sarah survive before open heart surgery became imminent? Every day we waited allowed Sarah’s veins, arteries, and tiny newborn heart to grow, thus increasing her chances for successful surgery. Wait too long, however, and a new lease on life would pass her by.
The critical turning point in Sarah’s story came when she was six weeks old. “Sarah has decided she’d like to have heart surgery now,” was the compassionate way her cardiologist let us know we couldn’t prolong things one day longer. Our heart-wrenching situation was about to get even more complicated.
Consent forms were signed, Sarah was dedicated to the Lord in the hospital room, and I prepped myself for an all-night prayer vigil that would lead to Sarah’s early morning surgery. Holding my precious child in my arms, encumbered by all of her life support tubes and wires, I pleaded with God. Save her, Jesus. Spare Sarah’s life. Carry her through tomorrow’s surgery. Carry me through this, God. My strength is gone. How can I go on one more day like this?
It was then that Sarah’s nurse walked into the room. She started shutting off monitors and unplugging Sarah from the various machines she had been connected to for all six weeks of her fragile life—machines I thought Sarah needed to survive. “I think you and Sarah should go for a walk, Mrs. Amick,” said the nurse as she handed me a pager. “You can go anywhere you want in the hospital, just be back within 20 minutes.” Her eyes finished her explanation.
I understood. Sarah could make it for 20 minutes without medical intervention. I also understood why Sarah’s nurse was extending such grace. There was no guarantee my daughter would live through the next day’s events, and I had never been given the blessing of holding her without hospital equipment between us. If Jesus decided to take Sarah home to heaven, this would be my one and only opportunity to love on her flesh to flesh.
I held Sarah close to my heart and decided I’d be back before the time limit was up. As I headed toward the elevator I realized I had no idea where I was going. All I knew is that I was being given the gift of escaping the hospital room that had confined my baby and me for what felt like forever. The elevator door closed off contact with the nightmare I was living, and—wanting to get as close to God as possible—I pushed the button to the hospital’s highest floor.
Stepping out onto this unknown territory, I was met by floor to ceiling windows. The view was stunning; Boston’s skyline at midnight is a light show illuminating countless souls needy for the One true God. I suddenly felt very small. Alone. Invisible. Numb from weeks and months of heartache, the only prayer I could whisper was, Jesus.
Enter the presence of the Lord. God’s voice spoke directly to my core. “I see you,” He said. In that moment everything changed. The God of the Universe sees me and sees this dying baby in my arms. In the middle of this sea of confusion, El-Shaddai took time to meet with me at my point of desperation and set the record straight. He wasn’t simply watching from a distance, hands limp by His side. God Almighty was actively working in my situation to work all things together for Sarah’s good and for the ultimate good of our family, and because of that—because of Him—I knew that from then on I could do this.
My circumstances were still hard. Sarah would still have open heart surgery in just a few hours, and even if that surgery was successful, she would still have Down syndrome. Meeting with God on the top floor of that hospital didn’t miraculously change my daughter’s diagnoses, but it did deliver the miracle of a changed perspective. My situation was no longer desperate. It was hopeful—my vision renewed.
Joni Eareckson Tada has lived with quadriplegia ever since her diving accident many years ago. She understands our inherent need to trade in our human perspectives for God’s point of view. “Life is hard,” confesses Joni. “Trials are not for our pleasure; they are for our profit. Once you accept this truth,” she continues, “you transcend it.” Once you have eyes to see Jesus Christ carrying you through your trial, monumentally heavy burdens become easier to bear.
The Lord met Hagar in the desert. He gave her His perspective on her circumstances, and she was able to face her trials with new confidence.
The Lord met me on the top floor of a children’s hospital. He spoke to my broken mother’s heart, allowing me to see my baby’s health crisis and my baby with new eyes. The One who sees me brought me to a spacious place where I was able to transcend my own hopelessness, and that is what made all the difference.
The same Jesus who transcended death itself will lift you up to transcend whatever trial that is taunting you today.
What hard thing are you dealing with? It may not be Down syndrome or a heart defect. It may not be quadriplegia or the agony of rejection, but every one of us suffers trials of one sort or another. Life is hard. Life can be lonely. Conflicts and crises can leave us feeling isolated with little or no hope for better days.
The glorious truth that transcends all these scenarios is that God sees you. He sees you on your knees in prayer for your family’s situation. He sees the sacrifices you make for the good of your ministry. He sees you facing one trial after another in a manner that blesses His Name, and He wants you to remember He is with you through it all. He will remove some of the obstacles in your path, and He’ll ask you to walk through others, but through thick and thin, God is by your side. The same Jesus who transcended death itself will lift you up to transcend whatever trial that is taunting you today.
As we move through the days ahead, how about we welcome in God’s perspective on the hard things in our lives? That will help us see each new day with the promise of better things to come. And, it will give us a glimpse of the God who sees us in return.
