Christian Women's Magazine | Finding Peace

JBU Winter 2013

By Jill Briscoe

Jeremiah knew about inner turmoil. “I have been deprived of peace,” the prophet records in Lamentations 3:17. Peace is not a fuzzy feeling. Peace is, as Augustine put it, “the tranquility of order.” When my spirit is out of order and I am falling apart on the inside and blaming God for it, I am probably suffering a bad case of faith distress. There is an uneasy awareness that things are not the way they ought to be. My world is seriously out of sync, and I feel a real resentment toward God. It is his fault, we tell ourselves. This trouble happened on His watch. He is the robber; I am the robbed.

A friend of mine had been sexually abused when she was a small child. As she struggled to make sense of what God had allowed to happen to her, she got God and life mixed up and ended up in a great state of spiritual confusion.

“What is your concept of God?” I asked her.

“At first,” she replied, “I found it difficult to believe that He even existed. But I knew that was silly because I knew He did. Then I really had a problem! It was easier to believe that He wasn’t there than that He was! If He was, how could He stand by in a corner of the room with His hands in his pockets? What sort of a God is He? How could He do this to me?”

But it wasn’t God who had abused her; it was her father. And God had delivered her out of the situation in a remarkable way. God was not the robber.

When you face such inner turmoil, you need to talk to God about it, for ultimately only He can make sense of it. Only He can restore your faith. Only He can help you find peace. 

Please enjoy the articles JBU has shared from this issue of Just Between Us Magazine. As you read, we pray you are encouraged as you trust God through whatever trials you face; finding contentment to help you embrace your circumstances and ultimately finding the peace only God can give.

Even though, as pastors’ wives, we face great trials and times of testing, we also enjoy a life of bounty and blessings. It’s just a matter of perspective. Read more


Between us pastors’ wives, when life is all about what the Lord wants, then encouraging our husbands in all their busyness happens a whole lot more easily. Read more

Pastors Wives

There’s power in remembering what God has done in your life. Use those thankful memories to build up your hope for the heavenly future. Read more


Many of us are no strangers to doubt in some form or another. Problems can arise, however, when, our doubts get out of control, and we find ourselves in a faith crisis. Read more

Emotional Health

Christmas is a season for giving. As we reflect on the wondrous gift of God’s son, let’s ask ourselves “ what are we giving this Christmas”? Read more


You can bring "glad tidings of comfort and joy" to the hurting this Christmas. Read more


Caring for our souls is the only way to not find ourselves empty or just surviving. Give yourself a soul check to assess how well you're doing spiritually. Read more

Spiritual Health

People with chronic illnesses are sometimes people with invisible diseases and it can easily slip your mind that they are suffering in some way. Over time, they are simply forgotten. Read more


Leslie Strobel shares her story and offers help and hope for Christian women when their husband is not a believer in Christ. Read more

Marriage Advice

Do you ever feel like there is something missing in your desire to be healthy and the spiritual empowerment necessary to make that happen? Read more

Physical Health 1 Comments

Taking up the ministry of burden-bearing and inviting ourselves into the sacred places of another's pain helps them to carry the load. Read more


We often question God’s goodness when we endure difficulties, disabilities, diseases, or even death, instead of thanking Him in our suffering. Read more

Relationship with God 1 Comments

One thing to remember is that wait is not an ugly word and “busy” is not a spiritual gift. Busyness is the enemy of peace. Busyness steals precious time. Busyness robs your blessings. Read more

Spiritual Health

It can be overwhelming to specialize and reach the wide variety of women's groups possible. How do we reach out to them without isolating them? Read more

Women's Ministry