Life looks quite different depending upon your geography, demographics, family situation, and personal dynamics. Yet we live in a time where we wrestle with multiple levels of conflict.
I have a wide range of friends—some way to the left and some way to the right—ideologically, theologically, and politically. And I am heartbroken by the ugly, judgmental, divisive comments lobbed like grenades, from all sides, at those who disagree.
There are no easy answers. There is no one-size-fits-all solution to all issues. Yet my soul cries: “From the end of the earth I call to you when my heart is faint; lead me to the rock that is higher than I” (Ps. 61:2). And, my mind keeps repeating these three little counter-cultural words: listen, peace, and contentment.
QUIET THE CHAOS WITH THREE LITTLE WORDS
1. Listen
I can love you and listen to you whether or not we see things the same way. I don’t have to agree in order to listen and love. Listening carefully and respectfully does not equal agreement, but I will always learn something from listening. My worldview is limited.
As a wise friend says, “My perspective is always limited. It’s just a matter of where and to what extent.” We don’t know the battles and obstacles people are facing behind their doors. Being heard, truly heard, is a powerful, precious gift that we can extend to others. No matter what, listen.
2. Peace
The peace of God is always a valid goal. Peace does not mean that circumstances are wonderful. Peace does not mean inaction. Peace does not mean exemption from suffering. “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:7). “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful” (John 14:27).
Have you ever experienced the peace of God in the midst of circumstances that were anything but peaceful? God offers a supernatural, unshakable, unexplainable peace in the middle of our darkest hours, a “hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast” (Heb. 6:19).
3. Contentment
Few verses are taken out of context and misused more than Phil. 4:13: "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Back up a little. Look at the context:
"Not that I speak from need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need" (Phil. 4:11-12, NASB).
Verse 13 is not a name-it-and-claim-it ticket to be Superman or Wonder Woman. It is about learning the secret of choosing to be content. Despite your circumstances. What a tough lesson! But, one worth re-learning.
Let's continually choose this posture:
“My heart is not proud, Lord,
my eyes are not haughty;
I do not concern myself with great matters
or things too wonderful for me.
But I have calmed and quieted myself,
I am like a weaned child with its mother;
like a weaned child I am content.
Israel, put your hope in the Lord
both now and forevermore.”
PRAYER
Lord, in the anxiety of the storm, quiet my soul. Teach me not to block out the voices of those around me, but to listen to their words. Help me to find peace in You—a supernatural peace that doesn't change in the face of challenging circumstances. Teach me to rest in You when life doesn’t look how I wanted it to look. I need to find contentment in You alone, O, Lord. Help me to turn my heart to You. Lead me to the Rock that is higher than I. Amen.